#OTR50 Day 119: Democracy is Not a Spectator Sport

My parents instilled in me from my youth the importance of being part of the political process. That in order to be part of a democracy, one must participate. Voting is just a very small part of the process. It’s important. It separates the spectators from the participants. For most of my twenties I was […]

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#OTR50 Day 103: Insomnia

Insomnia I awake in the middle of the night over and over and over again Each time building stress making it harder to fall back to blissful sleep Each minute ticking by meaning less and less possibilities The alarm will sound and I will groan Exhausted and weary Angry with myself 262 Days to go […]

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#OTR50 Day 102: Presentation Prep

When the words become blurry on the screen | When the right words are just out of reach | When the connected thoughts suddenly seem disconnected […]

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#OTR50 Day 101: Flipside of Wrinkles

Smoothing wrinkles with heat and pressure | Steam vapor transforming rumpled into sharp | Magically turning flat to purposeful crease […]

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#OTR50 Day 98: Parent’s Day

Every day that we have any special people in our lives who served the roles of nurturing our minds, bodies, and souls. […]

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#OTR50 Day 94: Analytics Anomalies

I fall into the trap of numbers | Statistics Stats Sign-ups Stays Length of visit Rebounds Clicks | These are all things that meant something different half my lifetime ago […]

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#OTR50 Day 77: Love Your Tribe

I received news today from my circle of people that has left me extremely saddened. Life is a search for meaning. Moments strung together into stories. We are all stories in the end. We try to make then stories with meaning. With love. With family and friends. Meaning. Tonight was a reminder that life can […]

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#OTR50 Day 74: Petty Disorderly Conduct

This Out Magazine article is #truth. I was an 80s and early 90s Act Up Activist. I was recruited into the civil disobedience-based organization by an out female activist not by a cis-gendered white gay man. The NJ group from which I learned passive resistance and other safe measures for civil protesting was incredibly diverse […]

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#OTR50 Day 55: Traveling alone can be lonely

Business travel can be both a positive and a negative. It can bounce back and forth numerous times during a trip. This evening I had a lovely time hanging out in the late evening with colleague friends talking and chatting over drinks following a large group dinner at an excellent Greek restaurant. It was excellent […]

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